In a medium bowl, whisk together the gochujang, 2 tablespoons low-sodium soy sauce, honey or maple syrup, 1 tablespoon rice vinegar, 1 tablespoon water, 1 teaspoon toasted sesame oil, 1 teaspoon minced garlic, 1 teaspoon grated fresh ginger, and sesame seeds (if using) until smooth and glossy. If the sauce is too thick to drizzle, whisk in 1–2 teaspoons more water. Taste and adjust with a bit more honey for sweetness or a splash more vinegar for tang. Set aside to let the flavors meld while you prepare the filling.
3 tablespoons gochujang, 2 tablespoons low-sodium soy sauce, 1 1/2 tablespoons honey or maple syrup, 1 tablespoon rice vinegar, 1 tablespoon water, 1 teaspoon toasted sesame oil, 1 teaspoon garlic, 1 teaspoon fresh ginger, 1 teaspoon toasted sesame seeds
Gently separate the lettuce leaves, rinse under cold water, and spin dry or pat dry thoroughly with a clean kitchen towel. Arrange the dry leaves on a platter. Prep the cucumber, any extra carrots, and additional green onions, and set aside so assembly is quick.
1 large head butter lettuce, Boston lettuce, or green leaf lettuce, 1 small cucumber, extra carrot, additional sliced green onions
Heat the neutral oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Add the diced yellow onion and the white parts of the sliced green onions. Cook, stirring occasionally, for 3–4 minutes until softened and translucent. Add the minced garlic and minced or grated ginger and cook for 30–60 seconds more, just until fragrant.
1 1/2 tablespoons neutral oil, 1 small yellow onion, 2 green onions, 3 cloves garlic, 1 tablespoon fresh ginger
Add the ground chicken or turkey to the skillet, breaking it up with a wooden spoon or spatula. Cook for 5–7 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the meat is no longer pink and small crumbles form. If using a higher-fat ground beef or pork, spoon off a little excess grease if desired, leaving some for flavor.
1 pound ground chicken or turkey
Stir in the carrot and red bell pepper. Cook for 3–4 minutes, until the vegetables start to soften but still retain some crunch. Season with kosher salt and black pepper. Pour in 2 tablespoons low-sodium soy sauce, 1 tablespoon rice vinegar, and 1 teaspoon toasted sesame oil. Stir well to coat everything and cook for 1–2 more minutes, until most of the liquid is absorbed and the filling is lightly glazed.
1 medium carrot, 1 red bell pepper, 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt, 1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper, 2 tablespoons low-sodium soy sauce, 1 tablespoon rice vinegar, 1 teaspoon toasted sesame oil
Taste the filling; it should be savory and slightly tangy. Add a pinch more salt or a drizzle of soy sauce if needed. Stir in about half of the green onion tops, reserving the rest for garnish. Remove the skillet from the heat and let the filling cool for a few minutes so it’s warm but not so hot that it wilts the lettuce immediately.
2 green onions, 2 tablespoons low-sodium soy sauce, 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
To build each lettuce wrap, place a generous spoonful of the warm filling into the center of a lettuce leaf. Top with cucumber slices, extra carrot, and a sprinkle of green onions and sesame seeds. Drizzle with some of the gochujang sauce, or serve the sauce on the side so everyone can control their spice level.
1 large head butter lettuce, Boston lettuce, or green leaf lettuce, 1 small cucumber, extra carrot, additional sliced green onions, extra sesame seeds
Serve the lettuce wraps immediately while the filling is warm and the lettuce is crisp. Arrange everything family-style so people can build their own wraps.